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It’s okay to be selfish

Put yourself first! It’s definitely okay to put you first. Be selfish with you. No one is going to love you the way you love yourself. You can’t do and be everything to everyone but not be everything to yourself. It’s okay to be selfish.

Don’t ever let anyone make you feel bad for taking time out for you. Get that mani. Get that pedi. Go to the spa. Do whatever makes you feel good. Whether you’re male or female your sanity matters.

You won’t be able to do anything for anyone unless you’re good mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Even doing nothing at all is taking care of you. When you’re used to being the end all be all for everyone it’s hard to shut it off but you have to force yourself to shut down. Running of E won’t help you or anyone else in the long run. Eventually, it all catches up to you and then you’ll crash & burn.

Your health matters. Your mental stability matters. Your emotional stability matters. You matter. Put you first.

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