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I'm okay with being the bad guy. I'm here for peace of mind. I'm not going back & forth with anyone anymore about anything. There's no way I'm going to waste my time, breath & energy anymore. You have to allow people to live in their imagination & ignorance. Trying to make a point about a situation is a waste of time because it doesn't matter what you say. Nine times out of ten the other party has already made up their mind about you & the situation.

If you like me great. If you don't that's great too. I found peace within myself. Someone else's insecurities will not affect me any more. I used to want to tell my side of the story but for what. People will believe the worst of you always. Telling your side becomes a he say/she say back & forth thing and I truly don't have time for it. You have to realize that people would rather believe the negative things rather than use their brain and focus on the positive. Funny thing is it's usually the ones who claim to be your friends.

Everyone isn't going to like you. As long as you like you that's all that matters. Stop trying to prove yourself to others that only want to see the bad. Move forward with your life and make peace with yourself. It doesn't matter how long you've known a person or how close you think you are, don't allow anyone to disturb your peace. Your true friends will know the truth and will not second guess you.

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